Reduced sensitivity can throw a curveball into your sexual experience.
For the guys, it might mean wrestling with difficulties achieving or maintaining an erection, while the ladies might face vaginal pain and orgasmic hurdles.
The culprit? The intricate connection between your brain and genitals through the spinal cord and the elusive Vagus Nerve.
You see, sexual sensations are a gradual crescendo, starting with subtle sparks and building up to an explosive climax. Reduced sensitivity from ADHD makes it tricky to savor those subtleties. Here are five main culprits responsible for dimming the spark:
Distraction
Ah, distraction – the ever-faithful companion of ADHD. Whether your mind meanders from one thought to another or you’re busy critiquing your own performance, distraction can sabotage your ability to focus on the delicate dance of desire. Result? You and your partner might find yourselves in the midst of a sexual symphony, but unable to hear the music.
Muscle Tension
Tense muscles, especially downstairs, can cramp your style by constricting blood vessels, limiting blood flow, and compressing nerves. This squeeze reduces sensation and leaves you feeling like a musical instrument missing a few strings.
Medication Side Effects
Some ADHD medications, while lifesavers in many ways, can play tricks on your libido, arousal, and sexual function. Remember to have a heart-to-heart with your healthcare provider about any concerns in this department.
Bodily Disassociation
Ever felt like your mind and body are playing a game of hide and seek during intimacy? That’s bodily disassociation, often triggered by:
- past trauma
- body image blues
- performance anxiety
It can make it tough to fully embrace and respond to the sensual symphony, leaving you feeling like the conductor lost their baton.
Relationship Strain
If tension and dissatisfaction simmer beneath the surface of your relationship, they can throw cold water on your passionate pursuits. Relationship strain can make it challenging to let go, be present, and enjoy the slow, sultry build-up of sexual sensations.
Impulsivity
Here’s a nugget of wisdom – rushing to sensitive areas without proper arousal can lead to desensitization.
Picture it: the clitoris, a sensitive diva, can become irritable if not serenaded properly. Let’s remember that anticipation can be the best appetizer.
In conclusion, living with ADHD isn’t a journey for the faint of heart, especially when it comes to sensory sensitivity. But armed with empathy, humor, and a willingness to communicate, you can steer your intimate life towards smoother waters. Embrace your quirks, because it’s those very quirks that make your journey uniquely yours.
Consider Sex Therapy
But if you find yourself facing persistent challenges, consider sex therapy from a counselor specializing in ADHD, like we do at CHMHST. We can help you find coping mechanisms and provide helpful tips to help you enjoy your time in the bedroom.
